What is the power of a lie? That every day children, youth and adults, many of them leaders or politicians, continue lying and lying in what for some is already a compulsive attitude? And I worry about all why we lie to ourselves so often? Clarify that beyond my personal experience I have no authority on the subject, but thinking about it I think one of the factors that constitute the power of automentira in adulthood is directly related to the Peter Pan syndrome . Part of the desire not to grow and take responsibility is being able to tell lies without, at least apparently-impact. Avoid face-consciously or unconsciously or deny the consequences of a automentira is a sign of immaturity, just as when we tell lies begin a trace of guilt we can begin to think that it is growing. The automentira is perhaps the most common form of lying: when I postpone this important task, because "if nothing happens tomorrow I" when I eat that piece of pizza more because "I start the diet tomorrow, when I prefer a" better not talk about this issue "to avoid a conflict when I complain about my limitations but do nothing to overcome, when blame others and society to take the role of a martyr is that the situation is difficult," but I have or attitude or the desire to change, in these and other similar occasions, I am self-lying and running to meet the little Peter Pan in my heart. The automentir remorse can affect you if and only if you're mature, and refuse to grow and mature is a necessary and sufficient condition for automentirte without bearing the consequences and believe that are not important. Thus, in response to the initial question I would say that one of the reasons why we lie so often is the desire not to grow and not grow, we lie because we want to remain children happy and liars, because after all , many adults 'mature' and really happy you know?
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